Our community
Good people. Great nights.
The Wilde's is a UK lifestyle community for adults. Most of the chat happens in our private Telegram group — introductions, plans, questions and the odd bit of mischief.
Meet Sam & Chelsea ♡
What started as our own journey into the lifestyle became something bigger. We've made brilliant friends along the way and realised how much we love bringing people together — so we built The Wilde's. Whether you're brand new or have been around for years, there's room for another friendly face.
How joining works
- Create an account and confirm your email.
- Ask to join from the Telegram page — Sam & Chelsea review every request.
- Once approved, you can join the Telegram group and open the members' hub.
How we look after each other
- Consent first, always. No means no, and maybe means no.
- What's shared in the group stays in the group — never screenshot or share photos.
- Be kind and patient. Everyone's at a different point in their journey.
18+ only. Membership is by approval and can be removed if these basics aren't respected.