A UK Lifestyle Community
THE WILDE'S
Take a walk on the Wilde side…
Good people. Great nights. A little Wilde mischief.
Welcome to our corner of the lifestyle. A place to meet new people, discover new experiences and find the confidence to embrace your Wilde side.
✦ A little bit about us
Meet Sam & Chelsea ♡
We're the couple behind The Wilde's.
What started as our own journey into the alternative lifestyle quickly became something much bigger than we expected.
We've met some amazing people, made friendships and realised just how much we enjoy bringing people together.
So we created The Wilde's — our community, our people, our place.
Whether you're just starting out or have been around for years, there's always room for another friendly face.
No pressure. No expectations. Just good company.
✦ Explore your Wilde side
There's more to The Wilde's than a group chat.
The Wilde's Community
Good conversation, new friendships, spontaneous plans and people who just get it. Our Telegram community is where it all started.
Discover our communitySocials & Events
From relaxed drinks to unforgettable themed nights, we're creating opportunities to meet, mingle and make memories.
Explore eventsOpen to allThe Wilde's Lifestyle Compass
Exploring the lifestyle comes with conversations you might not even realise you need to have. Our questionnaire helps you explore boundaries, discover preferences and start those important conversations together.
Find your compass18+The Introduction Studio
Make an entrance before you've even said hello. Create your own personalised Wilde's introduction poster, add your favourite photos and introduce yourself to the community in style.
Create your introductionMembers onlyThe Wilde's Guide
Your little black book of the lifestyle. Discover clubs, events, useful resources, community recommendations and things worth knowing.
Explore the GuideApproved membersMembers Area
Share recommendations, meet other members, post introductions and browse the poster gallery once your membership is approved.
Enter the members area✦ The Wilde's social calendar
Some nights are too good to leave to chance.
Coming soon
WILDE AFTER DARK
Something is being planned. You'll be the first to know.
Nothing to see yet — that's the point. When it's real, our Telegram community hears it first.
Join the Telegram group for updatesKeep an eye out →✦ Your community. Your pace.
A place to be yourself.
We're not here to tell anyone how to enjoy the lifestyle.
Everyone has their own experiences, boundaries and reasons for exploring. We want The Wilde's to be somewhere you can ask questions, share experiences, build friendships and enjoy being part of something.
Respect, privacy and consent always come first.
And the fun? Well, that's entirely up to you.
READY TO TAKE A WALK ON THE WILDE SIDE?
You never know who you'll meet, where the night might take you or what friendships could begin with a simple hello.
Come say hi. ♡
Join The Wilde's